yep that's definitely subtle super, but i'm not sure how far it'll get it you :p

what i meant is that you should discuss it openly with your lady but not in a way that'll make you sound like a complete skeeze.
i would have absolutely no problem if after being out a couple of times the guy asks me if i were ready to take things to the next level (okay so maybe that was a little tacky..but anything to the same effect would do)