sad to say, im a wife of a verbal abuser. i know and i feel we love & we need each other very much. but sometimes, when we have a fight which is normal for a couples, i was always the one who is broken at the end. he never say sorry, never accept his fault. the one who is wrong, keeps on talking & talking. my patience,love,understanding, and faith in god, thats all i have to save my marriage.