I totally agree with you alizana...most relationships suffer becos one partner takes the other for granted and the relationship starts to decay slowly...

But in this case even if the attraction is physical or emotional, the sad fact is the lady is happily married... theres nothing wrong with her married life....

and suddenly she meets sumone who she feels wud have been a better husband... agreed she shudnt be feeling this way.... but there are several humans who live in so called healthy marriages and still look around....

wat say.....

On a totally unrelated note... Im happy many QL readers have actively participated in this thread and have given their opinions... lets use thiss forum to share ideas and learn rather than bicker and curse one another....

Though a few wise men ffelt this thread was tosh...??? the several responses i have got prove otherwise....

keep your comments coming....the nasty ones notwithstanding

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The only failure is failing to try harder.....