Mostly, males would like to go for sex on the first instance but after assessing the girl, in general, you will see it more on his actions on what he really would like to have with you.

If you are respectable and decent looking, men normally compliments it by showing decency at its best BUT if they think you are "opening-the-door" for them to go for anything, then, you will have what you want.

I believe that it takes two to tango. Men cannot be solely blamed for actions both of them wanted.