All three deserve equal attention, son - mother love is very special one and no one can mix this love with other and same is true for children. Love with wife is altogether different and it must not be effected by love to mother or love to kids. these three types of love are different and one is true to oneself then he can keep a proper balance among these and can keep all concerned parties happy and all these parties also must understand others need then no problem, u can enjoy ur life to fullest.