Ah K...apologies !

Ok, i believe your case is not that easy but you know keepin yourself next to him is a torture for you and a decieval for him...i tell you one thing if he is ready to lose his life for the sake of losing a girl ( no offense for you or any other girl on earth) ;)
let him do it ...i assure you he will not do it..its not that easy as some1 would think
and in case he means it then just let it go....its right, we have to sacrifice for others but not in this case.
Love is a holly thing, we cant take it as a matter of yes or no or in between..just leave him and i tell you in a matter of months he would be over this....

There is a quote which says "waiting for tragedy is worser than tragedy itself"

Lady, do wat your morals needs you to do...and keep the rest for GOD...

Gd luck !