well it is her decision to be 2nd or not. sometimes people decide to have one night stands too right?? so i think we cant judge or ask questions how long u know him etc..

yea it is not for me. and i dont think that is right and yea so weird and not feeling good for me..

i am muslim but i dont know these things cuz in turkey we dont marry more than 1. some do but it is illegal.

and also yea this will be like judging her but.. if u will marry him he shud tell u ur rights right?? bec u r not muslim and u may not know these kind of things. so i think if u r asking questions like this u shudnt marry.