well thats a weird in your face topic but i think you are right in some points.
personally speaking i have no idea if it does or doesnt matter since i am not experiencing the feelings and sensations of a woman.
All i know is that ive been able to satisfy but not sure if its due to the size of actually the way am doing it.
anyway its been a while now and i probably forgot how to do it so am not gonna participate much in this thread.
TC