thanx all for ur responds
but still missin the point of my post which is about the fear of comunicating and interacting with qataries

i was hopin for some good points that really answere my question so we can understand u and u do. so eventually we can help each other living more comfortably in this civilized country

"some" not tellin the truth i dont know why
"some" compliment us , no need for that
"some" dont understand us and just DONT WANNA
"some" think we all r workin for the immigration department

just put ur points reasonably.....
thanx again