Regarding the Aptech option, I am afraid that you will drop that idea too if you know about the salary the guys teaching Oracle there are getting.

One option for you is to do part time programming in technologies like web-development, VB, VC++ (which is but a tough nut to crack) and so on. This will give vent to your creativity at minimum cost and also take care of your kid. Search the web for software assignments. But keep in mind things are not going to be easy at first.

And don't forget to mail me that website address if you actually manage to land up with any cash.