I have children here in the States that are in school and that is the reason he went alone. His company will fly me over every 90 days, but my Husband said that it was "too dangerous" for me...imagine that! FLIRTING and CHEATING are two different things and I feeling in my heart that he is cheating. I know that I will be probably be bashed by some, but until you walk in my shoes, please do not judge me. I feel so alone and lost. My heart tells me one thing, but my mind tells me another. Thank you to ALL of you that responded.