Hi Mariam-mar,

For a short period I was working for a self-help group in India that had a lifeline for people in distress. If I learned one thing there about life and happiness, that was it - to decide to be right or to be happy. What Maricel needs right now is someone to talk to in times of distress whom her husband also trusts.

By discussing too much about the problem on public forums we may also unknowingly lead to more problems.

:)