well i know.... i understand what you are saying ................
but in the example you have given in your question with the possible choises 1 or 2 , it implements that the peple involved knows from each other.....
at least the mistress knows, that he is married.... and i suppose the wife knows or suspects something.....
There are women who are quite ok with this situation of the betrayed wife.... unbelievable but true..... for what ever reasons... like social standing, financial standing or because they are afraid to be on their own. That a choise you make. i know a couple living together since 20 years, but everyone is doing his own thing.. if it works for them, so be it...
We don t get 100% of all our dreams answered in a mariage. You have to find out, for how much less you are willing to settle.
I personally would not accept things... but for me its simple...... if my husband is not happy enough with me and needs somebody else.... then he will be free to go, because i am not going to wash socks, prepare meals and be there for somebody who doesnt care enough for me...... i am not saying that it iseasy, but i prefere to hurt myself, than to let somebody else do it....
it is a difficult subject.............................
well i know.... i understand what you are saying ................
but in the example you have given in your question with the possible choises 1 or 2 , it implements that the peple involved knows from each other.....
at least the mistress knows, that he is married.... and i suppose the wife knows or suspects something.....
There are women who are quite ok with this situation of the betrayed wife.... unbelievable but true..... for what ever reasons... like social standing, financial standing or because they are afraid to be on their own. That a choise you make. i know a couple living together since 20 years, but everyone is doing his own thing.. if it works for them, so be it...
We don t get 100% of all our dreams answered in a mariage. You have to find out, for how much less you are willing to settle.
I personally would not accept things... but for me its simple...... if my husband is not happy enough with me and needs somebody else.... then he will be free to go, because i am not going to wash socks, prepare meals and be there for somebody who doesnt care enough for me...... i am not saying that it iseasy, but i prefere to hurt myself, than to let somebody else do it....
it is a difficult subject.............................