so shining... you mean i have no right to get married anymore? LOL

when i was young, i said i would get married the moment i land stable career after graduation... that time i didnt have anybody to marry. Embarassed

then move on to the next level. i said i would get married when i get 25. my bf was so immature. he would want to get married also, we were of the same age. but i think it was really unlikely to happen because we are not emotionally ready yet. luckily, i got a job offer to work in qatar. i had to leave. it didnt work when we're together, how much more if we're apart.

got into relationship for 2 years here. had planned again but he had to go back due to work-related issues. he didnt wait for me.

now im 29, enjoying my life here. the idea of getting married sometimes occur to me, but i dont think of it that much anymore. no more planning next time. perhaps, il be dealing with that after a year or two... or otherwise, i might just cross the bridge when i get there Wink

you see its not about the age, its not (all) about finances... it up the partners if they really want to spend the rest of their lives together.