Sanjeev - I am truly sorry you feel that way.  I'm not sure what happened in this forum to cause you to be so bitter but we all come across people on this forum who push our buttons.  The wise thing to do is just ignore them unless you are looking for a verbal sparring match.  But don't let it get to you.  It's not worth it.  You don't know these people and they don't know you so why get so bothered by it.  I mean, when you compare this to real life it is pretty darn trivial, don't you think?

I think you should take you own advice and go love your family/friends etc. and stop starting and being a party to the so called b.s.