Aunt Polly - it has been my experience that it is the insecure men who are the guys who have the most trouble working with women.  And these insecure men have the most trouble with strong, intelligent women - so take heart.  He has targeted you for a reason - he is threatened by you.


With that said - I have worked for some incredibly professional men who have gone out of their way to help me grow in my profession so while there are some real stinkers out there - there are some real gems too!