ICU,

once you get married, you are promising each other that there is no one else in your lives more important than each other. So why do you need another man to share your imotions with?? some men can take advantage of females who get very imotional with them...

so what your husband did....doesn't sound so great... there is something behind all this or Otherwise,

 Share your imotions with each other... be it anything...hey after all you don't want someone else to know what you feel about your husband...right?? so..it works both ways...