CB - you are correct in your description of xonic - he is young.  But he does have a lot of good qualities.  I put my foot in my mouth quite a bit when I was his age and I still manage to do so every now and then today at my ripe old age.  But some advice Xonic - you can take it or not but it is offered out of kindness:

 

1.  You don't have to say everything that comes to mind.  Think before you speak (and act).

2.  Actions bring consequences therefore count to 10 (or 100) before you say or do ANYTHING out of anger.

3.  Remember that people will always forgive you but they never forget so be very sure about how you handle difficult situations because going forward is easy and going back is impossible.

 

Good luck my young friend.  I'm sure Darude will come around - his is a big guy with an even bigger heart.

 

 

 

 

What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness.
~Tolstoy~