Why you are all moving away from the main subject the woman didn’t tell the truth and that’s it.
Whether he was or wasn’t a virgin is something we’ll never know but if he lied about it and she could prove it, off course it is her right to do the same thing.
Why God created it, I don’t question that he created it and that’s it
Just because in the western culture it is abnormal to be a virgin doesn’t mean every body shouldn’t be. I am a virgin and proud about it and I want a virgin wife and it is my right to know if she is or not, and the same thing for her
And off course men and women will never be the same. God created us differently EQUALITY IS IN RESPECT