To be frank I dont think I misunderstood you. You just did not make any sense. But I take your point and clarification.
While I am on it a few more points generally in response to a number of comments made here:
1. Some people have assumed that it is extreamly uncommon for western guys/girls to remain virgins prior to marriage. Well in my experiance its not "unheard of" - certainly most girls/guys are not going round knocking off anything with 2 legs and a heart beat. "Chastity" - while perhaps not a fashionable virtue still exisits in family life.
2. My comments in no way relate to islam but to the practice of hanging sheets and "hymen checking" - which I understand is un-islamic.
To be frank I dont think I misunderstood you. You just did not make any sense. But I take your point and clarification.
While I am on it a few more points generally in response to a number of comments made here:
1. Some people have assumed that it is extreamly uncommon for western guys/girls to remain virgins prior to marriage. Well in my experiance its not "unheard of" - certainly most girls/guys are not going round knocking off anything with 2 legs and a heart beat. "Chastity" - while perhaps not a fashionable virtue still exisits in family life.
2. My comments in no way relate to islam but to the practice of hanging sheets and "hymen checking" - which I understand is un-islamic.