applebees, thank you for your comment but it is not fair for you to say that. have you been married to filipina to say imply that they are not worth it. my mother is a professional. she is not a housemaid. and even if she was a housemaid, she still have the right to love.

t_coffee_or_me, that is what i asked of him last week. he said no. and i believe him. giving the benefit of the doubt. and he was never a bad father for us.

britexpat, thanks for your comment. i am really proud of my parents. if they didnt stand and fight for their love, we wouldnt be here. with regards to the videotape thing, i guess i should hire somebody to do subtitles. lol

and saying about my mother who will be left behind, i dont think so. she's very supportive. i know she's be happy to see me happy.

by the way people, my sister dont agree with my idea. i think she was once introduced to my grandparents and was not accepted so she is angry with them. now, im teaching my 8-yr old brother to have the same interest as me.

thanks for all the replies. i really appreciate it