We considered going abroad not 4 personal gain. I am married with 1 child. I considered myself well provided by my husband that's why I choose 2 become a housewife. We decided 2go abroad wen both our parents started 2get older,n order 2 help them financially since my husband's income in the Phils. can only support our family. We r both product of a close knit family,its hard 4 us not 2 help our old parents in times of financial crisis. Since, its our 1st time 2be away from the family circle, every1 shed bucket of tears, hugs, kisses & unstoppable txt of hellos & regards. Aftr 2 yrs, aftr helping them & other family members n need, things changed. No more txt messages, no more emails, no more hellos. Instead we got reply txt such as: sory we're too busy, sory we're not at home, sory I have no load. YM n nvisible mode. N short We r forgoten. How sad.. So lonely...