Yesterday i was advised to check http://www.islamonline.net/ and found out a very interesting line about my situation.

"Dear brother in Islam, thanks a lot for your question which reflects your care to have a clear view of the teachings of Islam. Allah commands Muslims to refer to people of knowledge to become well acquainted with the teachings of Islam in all aspects of life.

First of all, it should be clear that a Muslim should seek a righteous spouse for marriage. Religion and good character should be the top concern of every Muslim when looking for a spouse. This is compatible with the Prophet's guidance: "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman; (otherwise) you will be a loser" (Al-Bukhari)."

I wonder if by good character he means beautty?
If not, then by choosing a wife with good character i'm already pleasing God/Allah, or you guys think i'm wrong?

"Islam does not teach us that we marry only within our ethnic circle. Islam treats all of humanity as a single family. Allah says in the Qur'an: [O Mankind, We have created you from a single pair of a male and female and made you nations and tribes in order for you to recognize one another; verily the noblest of you in the sight of Allah is the one who is most conscious of Him] (Al-Hujurat 49:13)."

Guess this confirms my sight as monotheist, God/Allah love all his children :)

Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ