You don't have to be a member. Anyone could go there. In your case though, I would exercise a little caution seeing as how cute and petite you are. In other words, go with a group of people.

I went there for lunch a few weeks ago with two Filipina girls. They were being enthusiatically leered at by two Qatari guys as they ate their lunch. One of the guys even asked me why I needed two ladies and whether one of them could join him and his friend at their table.

When we left, they followed us in their Range Rover for about 20 mins. This incident is unusual but can happen even at places like the golf club which is laid back and quite family oriented.

Just call me Tigasin. That's what I'm talking about