I agreed with you up until you got the the part that if you are confident then he won't cheat on you...sorry sweetie...that's not true...some people are just cheaters and are quite good actors. It takes TWO to make a relationship, not just the wife. Those men in the beginning, are NOT cheaters, but become them when something they want, walks by. Its not that women actually choose to marry them....they are mislead. Not much you can do about that except take your pride in hand, decide what you can or can't live with, and move on.

Your comment that believing in yourself and your morals works for YOU...but can't do much for your spouse in the cheating department..again, the spouse has to have the same attitude as you do on cheating.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.