for us women,having a job utilizes our skills as a person (not only as a mother & wife)and that's one of the reasons why we want to have a job outside of the home. for ages, women are defined as daughters then wives then moms. it seems that we are defined for what we perform for others. but this is not enough and will never be enough.

on the role reversal, why not? fathers can care for their kids just as good as the mothers.i should know this as i (together with my 4 siblings)was raised by my father.