good luck tallg! you can do it. my own dad shared the chores with my mom when she was still alive: taking care of kids, washing the clothes, helping us with our homeworks and cooking which is his best trait. even when my mom was around, dad is the the breakfast chef. and when my mom passed away when i was 13, he continued doing this while asuming all the other chores. really, up till now i could not imagine how he cope with everything and, to think he has a job outside of home! because of this,i always have great respect for fathers who are there for their children. for me they are the real men.