Whilst it is usual for many parents to feel as if they are to blame for their child's behavior, it's important to remember that you have done the right thing-you have accepted that there is an issue and have collaborated with the teacher to formulate a specific plan to address the problem, so I am sure that your child's class teacher does not think ill of you. Explain to your child's that you still love them but that you are displeased with their behavior and that it will not be tolerated either at home or at school.

Don't be pacifist avoiding something altogether usually leads to a fascination with it or anxiety and fear upon encountering it, so knowledge is a better teacher I want to point out that it won't be possible for your child to shield them from an awareness that violence exists and that by preventing them from learning about it,they actually making it more likely that they will be interested in violence when they does encounter it. It would be much better if you allowed them to learn that it can happen, and what the consequences are when it does. I suggest that allows such exposure gradually like chosen television programmed and reading appropriate stories , followed by discussions.