Firstly... Trust is a two way street, i trust her to respect a certain degree of privacy as she does me. End of Story.

It's not about hiding another woman or what not, but say that person had a life before their spouse like trust funds etc, which are legally none of the other spouses business, it's not something that concernes them, but will create a problem.

On the other side though, if she somehow "got access" to my e-mail, then yeah, big problem. If she said can i have your password, that is different. Obviously queery the reason then make a choice after that.

If my g/f asks me to get her purse from her hand bag, i hand her the hand bag. That is her private property (even though they cost me an arm and a leg) and nothing to do with me, as is my wallet to her.

Phone? i don't really give a rats ass about, i use it to make phone calls and take pictures of my... eh... Bike? yeah that'll do. Hell i quite often give her my phone when i am with her. I don't like the bloody thing anyway.

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