that's why the church wedding is widely practiced by the advanced couples who want to keep trust, love, keep their children healthy emotionally and phisically.

none of women passed the ceremony of church wedding is "flirting with other men" and "leave aside her morals". civil ceremony is far from the divine one, such ladies as nafisa described don't feel the responsibility of the act of marriage then.

if it horrifies you, nafisa, then you are on the right way, dear.