I wanted to write u before but i get busy anyway ,I think u r very wrong when u take this as against u in Arabic we say (عسى ان تكرهوا شيئا وهو خيرا لكم )and take this story some gang force one man to do one of these things kill a boy or sleep with his mother or drink al kohool (whisky) ,then he choose the easy one he think it is drinking al oohol after he is drinking al kohool he lost his mind , then he kill the boy and slept with his mother . maybe this not true story but what I want to say if they allowed u to go to the club then u drink too much then some of the men take u and slept with u , then you loose the most value for the women then you wished that somebody not let u in . and u should proud to be a Muslim 1st, and woman 2nd , and a Qatari 3rd , and u should be proud about that ,read about Muslim women in Islam and how her treatment and read about non Muslim woman and how they treat her . and then u should be proud that u r Muslim women .go back to your religion and yourself and think about it, People search and search till they find the Islam is the solution and u r a Muslim by born ,u do not have to look just little reads and u will be a good Muslim woman and proud about it ( الله يهديكي ) .