om Maui i dint mean tht, wht i meant was if u r in a relation u dont have to fake anything......as all fingers are not equal, every 1 has their own prospect abt relationship, so there is nothing abt satisfying men ego's in it..n orgasm = sex n sex is a part of relation, relation is not part of sex....n if u want the relation only for sex then it has a different name for it, n pls spare me if am offending any one....

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