"No one is asking anyone to "accept it", the issue here is that these people are so focused on her choice of clothing rather than her contributions to the museum."

They ARE saying accept it and move on but not in a direct way, but some did say it in a direct way...:)...

I didn't deny her contributions and I'm not concerned as much as I'm sorry...
I said it and will say again it it's offensive for me I'm saying my true feelings here, so sorry for having a heart to feel!!.. and I do understand why some people did see it as offensive..

and the question was how and I did answer that.. so the "how" for me doesn't matter if it suits you or anybody for that matter.. It just have to agree with my view on the issue...

I didn't know that my "how" should be to the acceptence of others...

"instead of worrying about other people's observance of islamic teachings, worry about fixing up your own weaknesses"

So you say I should shut up and only work on my self and not to say anything that concerns other muslims, and not to have a say...

I can see now why we are heading to where we are heading!

Only me me.. is a great way to live.. and the hell with others.. Don't feel angry or upset over anything that goes against everything you were proudly brought up with...!! wow that's sounds great..
but not for me...

I'm not perfect.. and I'm full of mistakes..
but still if only who is perfectly perfect human will have the right to have a say.. then I guess no one will ever say anything..

May God bless us with his mercy...