The 6,000 QAR won't get you far. Import food? So expensive. Eating out? A good restaurant in a Hotel can set you back 1k and that's not including much alcohol at all. To use gym, pool if you don't have it, memberships are expensive. A good SUV and another smaller vehicle set you back at least 5-6,000 only for monthly installments if you get a bankloan, count with another 8k yearly for full insurances. A maid, as you say, sets you back around 2k a month if you want to be fair - plus 10k sponsorship costs, yearly leave and and and... You'll be lucky if you save 5k - very lucky! You want the lifestyle, yes it costs. Is it worth it though? Good luck.