you need to relax... how long have you been trying for?? and i know u dont want medical help but maybe you shuld go check that you and your husband are both able to make a baby and you dont have any underlieing issues i.e polycistic overies or low sperm count if so you can be treated for this or go all natural and help yourself by eating the right foods and mantaining your weight with regular excersise. i wish you all the luck the the main thing is to relax. it will happen in good time :)