You are right, being positive starts within a person, you alone can control you emotions, as for me any negative vibes from other people, I only tell myself, maybe he or she just had a bad day, or have a problem I am not aware of, never start believing a person intends to do harm, otherwise you'll end up hating people, which in turn will give you a negative outlook... Now we don't want that do we? So start your day with a smile... Life is beautiful dear :)