"but u cant deny that he gets the invites to do so"

Sure I can.  I absolutely deny that a woman dressing in any way invites the man to rape.  Obviously we have have different standards for what it means to be a man.  Part of my standard includes self-control.  I can appreciate a woman going topless at a Euro beach, but there is a big difference between that and wanting to rape her.  One is an erotic thought, the other is an act of violence.

That anyone would even see nonconsensual sex as being at all arousing is bizarre.