I guess it depends on certain situations why we are treated differently. Based on traditions and cultures, women were basically respected and protected. Well i hope it still remains up to now, but it's not usually the case esp. nowadays. Are you in a way in love with somebody,but you find her confusing? I know it's personal, maybe she just needs a lot of attention from you or you just simply have to prove  yourself to her. Be  truthful in everyway and show her how much she means to you.