I moved out here 3 months ago from the U.k, you soon get used to it. The driving really isn't that bad don't worry and your kids will soon settle in, mine are at DBS and love it. There's loads of things going on for you and your kids to enjoy, the people who moan are the ones who don't go out or take advantage of the many things Doha has to offer. Hope you find what you're looking for and enjoy living in Qatar. It really is a great place to be.