guies social meets are great,, i think ,, do it for some cause ,, we are from different countries ,, in the country back there are many unprivileged people , needy , organize a meet and raise some fund to help do socializing for social cause,, 'smoke' you are good person who tried to gather people... please put an aim in each meet and surely you will feel happy and proud of yourself even people will not show interest in that......