I think you've told all more than enough about your domestic arrangements and dissatisfaction with them. I really don't need to know any more. Just today you told us how you don't know any married British women whose husbands help out with housework and that you standard of living here is lower than in the UK. Yes, you are such a private person. LOL.

Still avoiding my original suggestions about carpooling or living closer to his work and driving him yourself. Too confusing with all the housework you do all by yourself I suppose . . .

Oh well, doesn't matter, you'll have to figure out how to manage soon enough. :)