i understand its nice to be offered but if you dont drink or eat certain things. Then why would you take it. That would be like saying certain religions that dont eat pork should take it if i offer it. Like i said I am wondering how much of it is true. Its all right saying 'drink tea coffee get over it' if i dont drink tea or coffee im not going to drink it. just like im not going to eat meat if offered or take drugs if offered. thanks for the responses guys think i will go with letting them know first hand what i do and do not eat.