I appreciate your comments,
The question is and I already asked it:
Is choosing what is right for your childreb considered an abuse or no?
Note:
Parents experienced a thing and practiced it, say a way of life in and this way of life made the parents life better and happier and the parents decided to teach this way of life to their children, is this considered an abuse or no?
Which is better giving a right option and the right option already explained above or another option which might have a negative impact on you and your family?