how do you want people to respond correctly if you are not clear?
Please define what you been by gay parenting?
Is saying truth bushing?
Love have never been a conspiracy, Love = purity, if love is used for conspiracy then it is not love it is a hypocrite.
There is always a logic, for example the man who benifits humanity can not be described as a criminal.
Another example is the fair judge will always be bad in the eye of criminals.
Why I like to give examples?
Because examples helps to convey the message and let others understand it.
The love provided to the child can be positive or negative, a right love will not spoil the child where as a wrong love will spoil the child as simple as that, and this makes it important to look at the way love is provided.
The word irrelevant is applicable in some cases and in some cases no.