Celineg,

Thanks for the advise & it is indeed appreaciated. I undrestand & got your point, how i wish it is easier said than done. Maybe we (me & my husband) learned our lesson but in a hard way by accepting the offer here in Qatar as we are both working before in Dubai, UAE thinking that the offer is a bit better than the promotion we are about to receive before we left our previous job. Yes you are right everything here is too expensive, plus the fact we need to send to school our 5 yrs old. Sorry but I cann't set aside my emotions when it comes the family matter (who wouldnt be, i guess). My mom is here and she was sponsored by owner of the company we work for, so she was the one taking care our my kids at home.