It's not about them... It's about you.

Are you in peace with yourself for not forgiving and forgetting? You feel justified by letting them rot in earth and in hell for their wrong doing towards you? Are you in contempt and *is* happy about it?

The reason why they did what they did to you was probably the same reason what you having right now.

So if you answer YES to all of them. Then yes, to each of their own... I can't judge you by your own inequity.