How to get red of marriage boredom

Mrs. Mido80...You're suffering such a dull and boring husband who is neither taking part in household activities nor his daughters’ education and his working hours are less than yours...Moreover he believes in mythical studies...Strange.

Take him to a good psychologist...he is badly in need...

thank you blue_rose ;)

'Man doesn't like to have one woman all the time, a psychological study confirmed' - eh which one is that?

Why don't you do more to help your wife and let her go out to test if this so-called 'study' is true? Working as hard as she does and putting up with a boring, lazy husband who is thinking about cheating must be tough for her.

i agree with bars_747's comment

it was far more gud if u have taken 5 minutes to talk wit ur wife abt ur boredom and mechanical life...

y not try for a vacation wit ur family and enjoy the fullest for a quick relief

Mido, if you want to be with another woman in addition to your wife so badly, why do you come on QL to ask for advise? Apparently you know what you want....do you want the QL folks to justify your wanting to have another woman?

Not gonna happen mate!

I appreciate your nice advice & this shall be a push for me to start different positive attitudes.

Regards,

You say you are a guy who "says your prayers regularly" and then go on to say you wan't to cheat on your wife?wow..that's such a contradiction! Now how would you feel if you found out your wife was having a bf to add spice to her life? Do you really think its only men who appreciate the o'l no strings attached variety in life? Do unto others... If your life is so boring why not take up a non destructive hobby? better still talk to your wife and maybe you both could work something out. Remember as a father of two kids you have to be more responsible and set a good example to your lil ones. All the best!

Its difficult to do that RainRivera. Wherever we go, I see extremely attractive women & girls. I struggle not to have a look, but in vain. Can you stop looking at a charming girl? but as you said, its only a glance

I'll snatch a chance to do that...good boy

I just think dating your wife can do the trick, as busy as she may seem, women still longs to be treated a princess even after marriage, ask her to go out of town, just the two of you and see to it that your two daughters are secured and assure her that, pamper her like you did when you were courting her, courtship never stops in marriage, yeah go hide and seek, take her to a spa make her feel like she's your baby, relive what you were as lovers, Sneak out and all... Having another woman is not a solution to your problem, don't be stupid... Communication is the key...

Thanks moootwist for ur nice comment, I'll search for a native speaker tutor to help me improve my English Or if you can do that, I'll be happy. ooooops, I forgot to tell u that I have just asked my little daughter about the great gap between RED & RID and she corrected my mistake.

"Better be stupid than getting help from a Wretch"

Khanan - I was spot on ;) I am experienced enough for these things

Since your wife is an English Coordinator, ask her to tutor you so that your English will improve. It could be the best bonding ever between you & your wife. By the way, asking your children the difference between RID and RED is another bonding moments between you & your children.

I'll do it soon hahaha

Try playing hide and seek!!

hahaha.. getting Married again may get RED of your boredom!!

If she's an English coordinator, then perhaps you could play at Teacher / student.

Has she got a cane ?

you spilled the beans..

Lookout for Lucky Luciano comment on this thread..

Thanks guys for participation. I tried most of your suggestions but stile feeling bored. For prayers, I say my prayers regularly. For my daughters, I confess I don't play with them so much but I'll do that more & more. For my wife, the problem is that she is busy most of the time doing her job OR studying to my elder daughter. In addition, she is easily irritated due to her job nature (English Coordinator). She keeps, nearly 70% of the time, working and reviewing her staffs' work at home. Sometimes we get quarrel for trivial things or different decisions. Sometimes I feel I want to have another women in my life but in the mean time I know if this happened, my wife will be badly affected. We all know that we, men, like change in our life and our relationship. Man doesn't like to have one woman all the time, a psychological study confirmed.

Anyway, I'll do the same as most of you recommended and I'll tell you the result.

Thanks for all again

“I think there are some more others who suffer the same thing” and “Different cultures help people exchange information and experiments”....hmmm what do you have in mind there hoosay!!!!

In brity suggestions, I shall now cup my hand against my mouth and say u gotta “LAYTHEOLADEESTOO”....:-)

is a stari mekha :P

talk to your wife about what's going on with you and you.

...WTH!! u seriously got lot of useless time .. & i here wish days could be longer.

khanan, he seems to be a bit of a lazy git....

'Just make yourself usefull'...excellent advice :)

work to him already. This guy is really bored. Date your wife privately (without the kids) once in a while. It will work a little! Then I'll tell you what to do next!

mido, you can do the dishes, sweep the floor, play with your kids, make dinner.....just make yourself useful.

perhaps we need to start a QL Yodeling Club ..

Mido..............

its ok we can hang out together if you want?

yes yes brity...yodeling the solution for all...One can yodel in the bathroom, at work, in the garden or at Citycenter…qatar would be a friendlier place then – Landcruisers will stop flashing and children will point at you and tell their mummys to yodel along !!!! If you do get bored and it gets monotonous then just change your pitch. Super!!!

Spend more time with your kids.

hollow. That's what makes your life boring.

Girls!

Spice up your life.. Take up yoga or like me - yodeling... Then when the wife comes home, you can cheer her up by yodeling in her ear...

which reminds me - get some lederhosen as well ..

Good Luck!

Dear Friend,

The solution to your problem is your involvement toward your life is zero. A Big Zero. What you really required is change your style. Here Style How many time have you spoken with your wife shared good memory of time when you meet here, How many time you had been helping hands to her. How amny time have you played with your children.

DONT GET ME WRONG. But this small happiness always lead to us to beautiful life dear.

Speak more and more with your wife. and see things would be changed.

Rest is your choice.

Female WHAT???

Khanan - Very easy. Money talks but No Money No Honey :)

Read Quran and get closer to God

you got his point and you told him the solution :)

now he needs to work on "How to get it" ? ;)

I managed to kill my boredom by having 2 mistresses. one for weekdays and one for weekends. Try that

go & tell your wife exactly how you feel so you can work things out TOGETHER... :)

Get RED?

for extra cirrucular (maratial) activities...

bro..........u seem too confused.........and wat do you intend to convey by saying 2 female kids........i suppose matured way of introducing them is as your daughters.............secondly best friend for a father is his kids and that should not be a boredom.............change your thought process and look at spending more time with ur daughters................

weekends would be the best getaway with the family...if you don't mind the heat, the beaches are pretty nice to hang about, ...try "www.qatarhappening.com" to see whats happening around, but then it's spending money again..

nothing much to do here in qatar yet, just be be be....

it's everyones story here dude, only the bachalors tend to go hell bent...

Just be a real MAN