how to report a fake marriage

mishalin may the force be with u..

Mishalin - I wish you luck..

Good Luck. Hope you get the bugger and find hapiness for yourself and family :O)

To all, Thank you so much for the advice, comments and suggestions.I really appreciate it and will do the necessary action after thinking once, and twice.

JamQat, i also know the girl and even the other woman is texting me which really annoys me and really wanted her to suffer the consequences. 

well said flor.. pedeng pakulam na lng ung isa?? lol... jokeness.. hayss mga lalaki talaga.. kung kanino namamangka.. haysss..

the procedure was to file a formal compalint in our country so that an order will be issued for the guy to answer (in writing) adn when the guy comes home, he will be prevented to go back abroad unless he settled the complaint.The common scenarion will be for the philandering husband be committed to give the due remittance to support his first family back home or he will be prvented from going back abroad or if he do not fulfilled his OBLIGATIONS, he will be jailed when he comes back home again.

I'm sure a few hundred QL readers are now quacking in their boots :O) 

just the name and where about of that man.. let the cops do the surveylance..

Rather than worry about what, who, why etc.Just answer the question she has posed - as Pilgram did..

unless you are a fellow Filipino, you won;t understand the OP's predicament!

You can always try calling the police here, but if you're calling and reporting it from another country I doubt there's much that they will do.  What I would do is report it to his employer (especially if the employer provides his housing) and start divorce proceedings.

haha sorry but i can't help but laugh at some of these comments. Some do like drama and action to spice up their day lolz.

Mishalin, you sound soo innocent. You're accusing ur husband of having new wife, at least he doesn't have a girlfriend, you know?

Unless he's Tom Cruise or Brad Bitt, i say dumb him! Get divorce. It's not worth the money he sends you. The fact that it is worrying you and the fact that you think about it so much that you post a topic here in QL, tells me that you have unhealthy relationship. Screw the money, rest your mind.

WTH?? No such thing as "fake" marriage. My dear, maybe your delusional. He's your husband, go ask or talk to his family: brother, sister, mother, father, maid, driver, etc.

Ppl really surprise me sometimes lol

so that all drivers of all ambulance are filipinos.. ahihihihihi.. i think i said too much..

bark - scorpion - dont be silly.. common.. do my routine.. its safe, aids free, and very cheap.. just expand ur imagination..i think my gray matter shut down.. im not reading between lines.. my bad.. yeah bark.. some men realy do these.. but count me out.. i love my routine.. to many options and posssss.. acrobatic even lol...

Lol!

Tigabaguio - It's you. I never say men are all the same and you are going for flesh here.. What im pointing out is: not all men are like you.. there will always be husbands who cheat to their wife and kids.

bark - scorpion.. im also a man.. i can be tempted too.. but that depends on how moral you are.. how u love and respect ur wife.. and how we fear God.. its a matter of self disceplin.. mine over matter they say..for we all know sex outside marriage here is prohibited.. well be jailed and be deported if caught.. so even if given the chance i wouldnt take the risk.. i flew thousands kilometers from home.. i came here to work.. to earn money.. and i wouldnt gumble this just for flesh..i better gamble for carlift.. it adds for my income.. coz thats the reason i came here.. not for flesh... bow.. ty..

tigabaguio - Well,not all men are doing the same routine.. even those who have their wives here are trying a new dish when in fact they have it at home..how much more when they are alone?

not at all s_isale.. today is my 3 months in qatar.. i think i can make it for the next 9 months.. im a boyscout, im resourceful.. ill just imagine im sleeping with m. sharapova.. then do my rythm.. easy as that.. like urinating...

Trying a new dish is the thing..sad..:(

good reasoning tigabaguio. Would your wife be in acceptance of the same logic?

supesshh.. maybe that man needs flesh.. imagine if ur vacaation is every year?? worst if its every 2 years.. maybe he cant endure and cant wait for a year or two.. so he want another here for changing oil..i said maybe..

there is some good way, talk to your husband heart to heart  and first of all god must be in the center between you and your hushband and you will see there is a good ansuwer you will recieved

  if husband go to some other girl... we must assume that he is not satisfied with his wife... if wife goes to some other man, then we must assume that she is not satisfied with him...but, there are few hus, wife who is never staisfied with any one and everyone..be careful before u come to a conclution... what might be the reason if ur husband goes to some other girl?

fake marriage??? ur not alone.. thousans are doin this.. its ur call.. but consider your kids in ur decision..

If he married you first and you have the authentic marriage certificate to show..then the second marriage will be considered void unless he's muslim..

if your not trust him divorce him , merry a good man

but , dont be hurry , , try to understand him

I dont agree with that Hawk10- sorry :( If the OP have enough evidence to prove that he had married someone else than her, then i agree with the OP to report it, i wont keep quiet about it. (as long as you have enough proof) I wont keep quiet just for the sake of his remittance. I will stand up for my rights and my kids too. The man should have known that consequences prior committing such act. It's a shame that some people are advicing other's to keep their mouth shut just for the sake of money :(

Hope you enlightened with such positive and negative advise by fellow Qlers BUT still the decision solely lies in you!!!Always remember in every decision you made whether its positive or negative you have to be ready for whatever consequeces might occur. 

That should read "grin and bear it"

Just bear it

Once if he decided to live with another lady, he will continue at any cost. Better to keep quite. This may be only temporary, as most of he guys here do. But he is still your husband and will take care of you. If you will do any thing against him, it is fore sure, you lost your husband and you cannot do anything other than he will lose his job and then you will loose husband forever. He will never accept you as his wfie and thus you will get punished for the rest of your life.Moral of the story: Just keep quite....it is better for you 

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why are you insisting on the darker side of things when youre still not sure

your husband loves you thats why you still have communication... thats why you still receive remittances inspite of the high cost of living here...

dont let him lose patience...dont be a nagger

I'm amazed that people stick up foir the husband. Report the guy to the Police and be damnd.

To you MISHALIN, if you will report your husband for having fake marriage here in qatar, think of the consequences; first he may put in jail and not be able to work again and support you and your children financially; second he may file legal separation and live with his other woman here; third maybe your proof is not sufficient enough and you're indeed putting your husband in big-big trouble here in qatar. Think more before to conclude......or ask your husband to come home or else..(!) you know what i mean.

a boy friend there...

Not again...

why bother for that???if you report it, then he might lose his job and cannot send money anymore to you....unless you can support you children....as long as he sends more than enough...so, what is the big deal???? talk to him heart to heart and no point of arguing....

if you care for your husband. dont report to CID instead report to your govt. who responsible. he will be deported dont let him go away from home again.

Well, you have to be careful about it.,dont just jump into consclusions.. and  i am just wondering how you get your proof if you are not here... I hope you are not relying to hearsays :( Better to have a strong, valid and factual proof before going into such actions, or you might end up ruining your marriage once you come to know that he is really telling you the truth. You can contact the CID for such reports, (sorry, i dont have their number but you can google it)!Goodluck

was solemnized under Muslim rites, then you husband is free.  Of course under our law it will be BIGAMY and under OUR law, it is punishable.But if you really want some security and protection for you and your children, try to lodge a complaint there in our country so you can get the support that you and your children are entitled in the first place. Your "hilandering" husband will be forced to give the remittance for your children.

Guys really are polygamous in nature. they will lie as much as they can to protect something. So self centered, sometimes. Peace to all good guys! Morning!

Ok.Then. try to contact one of the CID office here in Doha, don’t have it But try to Google it instead.

Yes, i think i am bitter since my husband is always telling me hes been good and behave at all times and I doubt it since I have proof. of course it has something to do with me since I am the legal wife and I dont think I deserve to be fooled by them so I need to make an action on it.

yes, and I think he is married with another woman there in doha with a fake marriage and I wanted it to be reported right away but how???

What makes you turn too bitter?is this people has something to do with you?Are they bothering you? Let their go on with their lives,Let this couple faced the consequences made by our Creator.

So your married and you think your husband has another marriage to someone else in different country?

Lolz!

Are you here or back in your country?

your husband is womanzing?

Would you care to elaborate more