desperate help?????/

just love him so much and give everything what he expect from other women believe me he will never go for anyother women.

Talk to him about it better, I know many who add friends only to their YM for many reasons and purposes but not to do something wrong.

If he is according to you having an affair with someone, why would he add her on YM if he can be with her all the time? I don't think that he is too stupid to do so. When people are really doing something wrong, they get extra cautious about it and that indeed means something wrong is happening.

if your husband dont want relationship with you, then you want to stay with your husband.

I am muslim and my religion will never allow to keep one wife and one lover. If it happenes my wife has the right to go from me. In my case if my wife has some relation ship as it is i will never allow her to live with me....

Why should i need a cheating wife..

I need true love... from true persons...

Dont carry any waste of the love...

computer and internet-Dear friend,guess why I came to live here in Qatar?Every time my husband go home for holidays,he was more and more diferent in atitude with me,so I suspect he has an affair here.I move here and the girl,keep calling ,until the day I answer the phone and told her ,if she don`t stop I´ll call the immigration police,to put she out of the country or I´ll found out where she lives and go there to hit her.Belive me ,it works,because now she move to Dubai,I know cause she call in his cell phone from there,she still calling ,but at least ,she doesn´t live here anymore.Sorry for my english writing and I hope you find a solution for your marrige.

Be ready first of the concequences before finding it out. If it is true or not, either of the two will ruin your marriage. Ask yourself is there something wrong with our relationship? Am i not satisfying him? Is he not a good provider since that time i found out ladies email? Are there changes in our relationship? are only few questions for yourself to ask... Some men even women just cant avoid temtation to flirt out ... but that daoesnt mean especially married and have kids they are just ready to ruin their marriage. Sometimes if not most often, its ladies fault.Because they dont give their husbands a chance. If i were you, i would concentrate on how to get back his full attention to me. If you are playing detective, and found out false, the impact is very bad. So what if he is chatting with someone? As long as he is doing his responsibilities to you, then just cool down, he will be tired soon and realize how expensive to have someone else aside from his family. Give him a time.. if you feel that it is getting worst and putting your marriage in circumstances then you dont need to spy, get to him directly, ask him what is making him like this and like that...Remember truth hurts...

But knowing the truth by spying is never good.Think twice before you do that stupid thing...

One thing more, if he denied to you, that means he cares for you..but if he already meant it on your face that means he dont care to you anymore...

If he has an affair and you want him to stop then this not the way I beleive, cant you join him and find a job here? if he is a naughty one then you have to act accordingly. by getting his email addresses what you are going to gain? he can have hundreds of email adreses if he wants.

my advise think wisly and if it is possible get closer to him and dont feel suspious about him until the things are confirmed.

I feel sorry for you

there's no point in tracing him and catching him RED-HANDED. instead, speak with him, what his real matter is for having a secret affair, and try to solve it out. ALL THE BEST FOR A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE. by the way, y don't u try coming to qatar and join him here ?

dont be too suspicious, that might be wrong...better have trust with yous husband and talk to him whatever that things bothering you ok?

with a nickname "never alone" maybe you should be watched.

Dear Friend

Keep away the Negative thoughts & ask yourself why he need to know another woman Cause of who!!! you should take care of him & from your question I can figure out that you love him so take care of yourself much more & try to forget, it might be his only mistake.

your in the US..hire a private investigator..good luck.hope you r wrong and all is ok..