LIFE IS UNFAIR
Well, I would like to tell you one sad story about my friend and love of his life and how life can be unfair...My friend and his girlfriend were together for 2 and half years and their relationship was something special, match made in haven, in every sense of this words...Lots of understanding, deep feelings, future plans.....They understand each other very good, they talked a lot, and they almost never had to fight about anything...everything was perfect until...They decided together that he should accept job offer in Qatar to proved financial stability for better life back home, and everything was fine and normal for some time, and than happened something unexpected, first they couldn't talk to each other over the phone for a month only sms messaging, second he had problems with landline and internet connection and still has, third he had and still has problems at work (overtime work, traveling etc.) and he couldn't get exit permit for six months and after all this troubles... everything was to much for him and he decided to take a break from this relationship...She was his best support, she understand him, she was his guiding angel, but he couldn't bear his loneliness and saddens...it was to much for him...I know that they are made for each other and they both suffer very much, and I would like to help them, but I don't know what to do...don't know what to say to him...It seems to me that some strange force have something against them...
but thanks buddy.
maybe sometimes our advices may not be very helpful but its true,almost we can give you the feeling to be not alone.
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To all of you big THANK YOU and if you would like to share somethning with me don't hesitate to contact me, I'll be very happy to help you...i'm also very lonely and now when my friend has problems, I feel even more lonely and sad...because i don't like to see people I like (love) to suffer...It's very hard for me to deal with such feelngs... I would like to hepl them but don't know where to start and what to tell...
yes he is right! QL is our home....i feel comfy here, like im having a place to go whenever im lost.
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If you couldn't bear your loneliness and saddens...just post here and tell us your problems.
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I know that you're made for each other and you both suffer very much,
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life is unfair.... i think for sometime only.
but not forever.... this is what i believed now.
good luck to your friends!
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Thank you for all of yours opinions...Life can sometimes be very crule...I'll hope that they will find a way to each other's heart and that everythig will be fine at the end because if somebody deserve to be happy they are...
"...everything was fine and normal for some time, and than happened something unexpected, first they couldn't talk to each other over the phone for a month only sms messaging, second he had problems with landline and internet connection and still has, third he had and still has problems at work (overtime work, traveling etc.) and he couldn't get exit permit for six months.. .. he decided to take a break from this relationship.."
...so did they TALK at the beginning? and it WAS NOT problem with the internet connection in the beginning?...it sounds like the guy is not into her anymore.. and just doesn't know how to tell her about it clearly...
call it the "spices" in a relationship. sometimes things just sort of go wrong beyond anyone's control. and no matter how you analyze there isnt a single solution as of the moment. its better to let it go at some point until things come into place. for the lovebirds if they love each other, they need to hang on, believe and trust each other. yeah easier said than done but what else can they do?
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If it was really meant to be he would have asked her to marry him or move to Qatar with him. If he left the country and didn't make any plans including her I'd say it's cause he doesn't love her as much as you think he does.
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Also it sounds like the guy is under pressure… it’s very important for the girl to find the right way of acting in this situation. When guys are under pressure, the best solution is to leave them alone for a while, and just to be there for them, not asking anything in return.. and later, when they are all right, they will appreciate it 10 times more…
probably the girl was a bit pushing him.. probably she was upset, coz he cannot find enough time for communication with her ? may be she thought that he is cooling down towards her, and she started pressing him, asking, getting nervous and stuff??? But all she had to do is just to give him a time to sort out all his problems.. Qatar is a big challenge, and a gooood life training…
From my experience, I would suggest her to understand that he is under pressure, that he is having some problems, that he is stressed out and to SHOW HIM her understanding..and just to wait…
Long distance relationships are very hard. He has to make a choice. Money or future life partner!
so that he can bring here here...maybe she can find a job as well.. it will be easier for both of them.
there's really an irony of life! sometimes things just won't fall into places but these situations could even make their relationship stronger if they sort these things out.if the guy had to leave his country to support his family then the girl has to understand the situation if she really loves him and don't wanna lose him.
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i dnt think hes doing something about their relationship.
his gf deserves to be happy
if they are made for eachothers,they will find a way back.sometimes a break its not the badest thing to clear his mind.
good luck for both
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needs to follow his heart and not his wallet x
If you work hard then it's easy to get a job and earn money wherever you are. To find that special someone is once in a lifetime hey.
Money isn't everything.
Ask him to take a break go home and see his gf. After all life is not all about money. He needs to decide what his priorities are. If he loves her that much I think he can afford to lose a little bit of money.
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Guys pleas give me some advice....experiance....something